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Husbands Out to Wives (HOW)
HOW is an international on-line support group for gay and bisexual men who are married to women and are out to (or working toward coming out to) our wives. Our mission is to support each other as we try to find our individual paths to happiness. HOW members help each other as we redefine our relationships with our spouses, family members, friends, colleagues, even as we may be learning to understand our own real selves.
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Subgroups You Can Join

Open Groups

Groups open to all HOW members
  • Men in 20's, 30's or 40's
    Men in 20's, 30's or 40's
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    72 Members, 19 Topics, Archives Viewable By Parent Group, Last Post:
  • ARIZONA AREA HOW SUBGROUP
    This subgroup is to facilitate event planning for Arizona area HOW guys. Any HOW brother is welcome to join, since regional meet-ups can be of interest to those who are not so nearby or traveling through the area..  The purpose here is to support logistics discussions for get-togethers; conversation about our current joys and concerns, questions and resources, should be in the main HOW forum so everyone can participate and benefit.
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    15 Members, 18 Topics, Public Archives, Last Post:

Gatherings

Subgroups for Annual and Regional Gatherings will be here
  • 2021 Gathering locked
    This is the place to find out all about our Gathering in Minneapolis!
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    55 Members, 78 Topics, Archives Viewable By Parent Group, Last Post:
  • 2022 Gathering
    This is the place to find out all about our Gathering in St. Petersburg, FL
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    42 Members, 78 Topics, Archives Viewable Only By Members, Restricted, Last Post:

Tech Task Force

The Tech Task Force subgroups
  • Tech Task Force
    The HOW Tech Task Force, dedicated to keeping the bits flowing!
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    10 Members, 45 Topics, Archives Viewable Only By Members, Last Post:
  • how | ColoHOW
    This subgroup is to facilitate event planning for Colorado HOW guys.  Any HOW brother is welcome to join, since regional meet-ups can be of interest to those who are not so nearby.  The purpose here is to support logistics discussions; conversation about our current joys and concerns, questions and resources, should be in the main HOW forum so everyone can participate and benefit.
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    21 Members, 39 Topics, Archives Viewable By Parent Group, Last Post:
  • Florida-HOW
    Florida-HOW Subgroup is for HOW members in the state of Florida to discuss regional interests and arrange events to support HOW members in the region. *This sub-group should not be used to post or discuss topics of general interest to our HOW brothers.*
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    14 Members, 8 Topics, Archives Viewable By Parent Group, Last Post:
  • Gathering Planning
    HOW Gathering Planning Committee
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    7 Members, 303 Topics, Archives Viewable Only By Members, Restricted, Last Post:
  • how | GreaterNY
    A HOW subgroup for planning regional social and support  activities. This group is NOT to be used for discussion which belongs in the main HOW group.
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    17 Members, 1 Topic, Archives Viewable By Parent Group, Last Post:
  • how | HOW-History
    Group purpose is to document HOW history for archival purposes and make it available to the general membership.
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    6 Members, 0 Topics, Public Archives
  • how | HOWBookClub
    A place for HOW members to discuss books
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    19 Members, 16 Topics, Archives Viewable By Parent Group, Last Post:
  • HOW Film Group
    HOW Film Group
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    21 Members, 18 Topics, Archives Viewable Only By Members, Restricted, Last Post:
  • Mid-Atlantic Region
    This subgroup is to facilitate event planning for Mid-Atlantic HOW guys (roughly from Pennsylvania south to Virginia). *Any* HOW brother is welcome to join, since regional meet-ups can be of interest to those who are not so nearby or traveling through the area..  The purpose here is to support logistics discussions for get-togethers; conversation about our current joys and concerns, questions and resources, should be in the main HOW forum so everyone can participate and benefit.
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    49 Members, 58 Topics, Public Archives, Last Post:
  • how | NorCal-HOW
    This is a subgroup for HOW members in Northern California to support efforts to arrange meetings and events for members in the region.  Posts made to this group will only go to HOW members who subscribe to this subgroup.  Posts of general interest should continue to be posted to the main HOW address.
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    10 Members, 3 Topics, Archives Viewable By Parent Group, Last Post:
  • how | PNW-HOW
    PNW-HOW Subgroup is for HOW members in the Pacific Northwest to discuss regional interests and arrange events to support HOW members in the region.  This sub-group should not be used to post or discuss topics of general interest to our HOW brothers.
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    37 Members, 54 Topics, Archives Viewable By Parent Group, Last Post:
  • Texas HOW Regional Subgroup
    Regional Subgroup for Texas HOW Members
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    14 Members, 6 Topics, Public Archives, Last Post:
  • how | Upper-MidWest
    This is a group for HOW members in the Upper MidWest to communicate on regional issues and events.
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    24 Members, 10 Topics, Archives Viewable By Parent Group, Last Post:
  • HOW Board
    The HOW Board of Directors. This is a private group for board business.
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    9 Members, 589 Topics, Archives Viewable Only By Members, Restricted, Last Post:
  • Moderators
    A group for moderators to discuss the management of the HOW group
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    6 Members, 9 Topics, Archives Viewable Only By Members, Restricted, Last Post:
  • Social Task Force
    The Social Task Force
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    1 Member, 1 Topic, Archives Viewable Only By Members, Restricted, Last Post: